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Is there anyone who thinks that death is not an inevitable end for everyone? No, of course not.

Is there anyone among us who thinks that death is not predetermined?

Is there anyone among us who thinks that they don't know when their death will come?

When a patient comes to you, this event returns to its natural course, meaning this is something that happens to all humans at any time.

No one knows their time; we are all exposed to the same risks, the doctor treating you and the patient, we have the same fate.

Therefore, if we are all subject to the same measure and standard, then people are equal.

You know that I am not in an easier situation than you; we are all in the same boat.

So, the more you prepare and get ready, the more you wait; you shouldn't promise to wait for when you will die. You should work, God willing, until the last day, until you can.

So, it doesn't mean that a person should just sit and say, 'When will I die?' No, we work until the last day.

When God sends his decree, we hear our situation. And there are some things that require attention.

Wonderful friends of the square. Our goal was announced as eight. We received many responses.

If you allow me, I would like to address the wonderful friends of the square. So, the wonderful friends of the square, peace be upon you.

I am Hatem Al-Najjar, and this is a square of eight. Some time ago, one of our family members was diagnosed with cancer. I ask you to pray for him to be healed and to be well.

The hardest thing for us as family members was to know the condition he was in and to understand its severity.

We saw more than one doctor until we found Dr. Ahmed Rifai, our guest today.

We entered the room and we were gathered; there were maybe ten or fifteen of us, carrying the burden of this difficult news for the patient.

We entered the room, and Dr. Ahmed told us all the details of the case, and we left all laughing.

The session and Dr. Ahmed's way of handling the situation were truly enchanting.

Even one of the family members was a doctor and said that he gave me a lesson today in what is called 'Breaking Bad News' for doctors, a lesson in delivering bad news.

This session revealed to me a deep and beautiful emotional side of Dr. Ahmed.

About illness, about life, about death, which they dealt with in a way that was almost careless to one’s blood.

And behind that, he has a beautiful and deep philosophy; I spoke to Dr. Ahmed.

I went to a special appointment and suggested that he be one of my guests in the square, and he kindly agreed because he carries this concern in discussing this topic with everyone.

Illness is part of life; it affects us or someone we love, and this is God's wisdom.

But how can we be ready to deal with illness from a philosophical, emotional, and perspective standpoint, even about death, a topic we are very afraid to think about and talk about?

Dr. Ahmed talked about this type of meetings where he dealt with very sensitive topics. I try to approach it without starting, and I hope I succeeded in that.

For me, it's a second human experience for Hatim.

First, those who have the favor to discover for the people and the listeners who are always present in my mind as I meet my guests here from Jeddah and the heart of Jeddah.

Thank you to the Historical Town Administration and the Ministry of Culture for this beautiful place and for the generous hospitality.

I hope you enjoy this meeting, have fun, guys.

I've never seen an Egyptian who isn't funny.

And because of all the worries we are in, people have learned to face these problems with sarcasm.

Otherwise, you would die of grief, and this has been present in the Egyptian people for a long time, that they can face problems with sarcasm and so on.

So it gives them a kind of false tolerance for the problems that exist.

And this is just a softening, but sometimes it makes them vent.

They focus on sarcasm and forget to vent in something important that needs to be accomplished.

I mean, they should change if there's something annoying, not just mock it, but change it.

I mean, that's a problem if you're in oppression, like someone slapped you.

You sit mocking it, or the slap doesn't hurt me, but someone slapped you, so it's okay, but if it becomes over.

If it becomes in every situation, if you always escape to sarcasm.

You can't, sometimes serious people need to be serious too.

Not all the time being a joker is good; it's nice that I was a joker, but if you are always a joker.